As this past week saw me back in the hospital for 2 days for an unseen, and very scary occurrence, I remembered this letter that I found the other day that spoke to my heart in this time I have been adjusting to. It speaks volumes to what makes life better and every time I read it and think on the advice, it helps me.
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A letter from Sydney Smith to Lady Georgiana Morpeth, Feb. 16, 1820:
Dear Lady Georgiana,– Nobody has suffered more from low spirits than I have
done — so I feel for you.
1st. Live as well as you dare.
2nd. Go into the
shower-bath with a small quantity of water at a temperature low enough to give
you a slight sensation of cold, 75° or 80°.
3rd. Amusing books.
4th. Short
views of human life — not further than dinner or tea.
5th. Be as busy as you
can.
6th. See as much as you can of those friends who respect and like you.
7th. And of those acquaintances who amuse you.
8th. Make no secret of low spirits
to your friends, but talk of them freely — they are always worse for dignified
concealment.
9th. Attend to the effects tea and coffee produce upon you.
10th.
Compare your lot with that of other people.
11th. Don’t expect too much from
human life — a sorry business at the best.
12th. Avoid poetry, dramatic
representations (except comedy), music, serious novels, melancholy, sentimental
people, and everything likely to excite feeling or emotion, not ending in
active benevolence.
13th. Do good, and endeavour to please everybody of every
degree.
14th. Be as much as you can in the open air without fatigue.
15th. Make
the room where you commonly sit, gay and pleasant.
16th. Struggle by little and
little against idleness.
17th. Don’t be too severe upon yourself, or underrate
yourself, but do yourself justice.
18th. Keep good blazing fires.
19th. Be firm
and constant in the exercise of rational religion.
20th. Believe me, dear Lady
Georgiana,
Very truly yours,
Sydney Smith
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